Saturday, July 27, 2013

#65 Keeping in Touch


Where am I? No change, Ponnekara, Kerala, India

How am I? Happy as can be.

I thought I would start keeping a list of what I want to share with you. I’ve been reading a lot of books lately. I finished Waiting to be Heard by Amanda Knox, the American college girl who spent 4 years in the Italian jail for murdering her British roommate. Very interesting. I assumed she was guilty but wanted to know the story behind it because there are always not 2 sides to a story, but 3. Anyway, I now understand what happened and I do believe she was robbed of 4 years of her life. AND… I think the moral of the story is we let young people do whatever they want at too young an age. An American friend I met here recently told me a story of when she was 17, just finished High School and she went to Europe. Ended up being deported from Amsterdam, they sent her to Heathrow Airport for a flight back to the US, but she didn’t have the money for the ticket so her father had to wire her the money. He wired it to the wrong airport so a week later she is still sitting at the airport waiting for the money! She finally called him and got the money sent to the right place. But 17 years old she was deported from the Netherlands, I wasn’t allowed to spend the night at a friend’s house at that age.

I read Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn, which I just read in Time Magazine was the #1 Summer Read last year. And Tina Fey’s Bossypants. I got these books downloaded when I was in Africa. One of the young people had a Barnes & Nobles’ Nook like me and she gave me almost 40 books on my Nook. I’m not fussy when it comes to reading, I mean if I start reading a book and it really bores me I would stop but if I’m just reading to pass the time, I will read most anything, fiction, non-fiction, murder mysteries...

Another book I read (a book, not an ebook) was Robin Cook’s Foreign Body. It was very good with its insights on India. I could not describe a ride in an auto rickshaw the way he does, and lots of other Indian descriptions like the new hospital down the street from a mountain of garbage. So if you would like to read a medical murder mystery book that tells you a little bit more about India, consider finding this book to read.

I still have lots more to read but I don’t know anything about them until I start reading them. If you have read a good book lately, please let me know what it was and I’ll see if it is one of the 30 something books that were downloaded for me.

I’ll going to close for now.
I look forward to hearing from some of you.
Love,
Marie

Thursday, July 25, 2013

#64 Sharing some thoughts


Where am I? Still in monsoon city, Ponnekara, Kerala, India. I just looked at my passport in my metal cabinet and the cover had started getting mold on it!

How am I? I’m good. Working on a project that needs to be done by next week, writing a submission for the Nursing Department for a Healthcare Innovation Award. The committee is accepting submissions until the end of July for the award that will be handed out at a conference in New Delhi in October. I really think they deserve it. The Innovation was offering Continuing Education for the nurses. It is not required here in India but back in 2002-3 the Head of the Nursing Department was a U.S. trained nurse and she introduced the idea of classes for the nurses. Now the hospital has the same requirement as the US nurses of 30 credits of Continued Education every two years. All of the education is In-House since it’s not offered elsewhere, unless the nurse does formal education, not continued education.

So What’s new? I have to leave India again by August 15th so I’m going to Sri Lanka this time. I found air for around $175 round trip leaving on August 12th and returning on August 21st.. The only thing is I’m not sure if I allowed enough time for the visa because I didn’t notice that there’s a holiday while I’m there, Indian Independence Day, August 15th. I’m going to check with Sri Lankan Airlines to see if I can change the date and how much it would cost me?

I found a Buddhist Ashram that looks like a nice place to stay in Kandy, Sri Lanka. I have already written to them to say I would like to stay there. I’m waiting to hear back from them.

I don’t think I can upload any photos, but I will try and if it works, fine, if not, as a typical New Yorker would say - forgetaboutit! Yep, just tried it and it won't load. Sorry.

However, in place of photos I have been thinking of a few things I would like to share with you.
• July 22nd was a full moon and you are familiar with how we name the full moons- Harvest Moon, Blue Moon, etc. Here in India every moon also has a name. This last one is Teacher Moon or Guru Purnima. It is when The Teacher, or Guru, is honored. Now I know you heard of “Gurus” but here at the University all the Teachers are honored as Gurus. I attended their event and I was touched. All the heads of the different schools, The Medical College, the Nursing School, the Dental School, the School of Pharmacy, the Business School, etc. (in case I forgot to mention one) attended this morning gathering where a representative from each college garlanded (put a string of flowers like a Hawaiian Lei) around the neck of the Head of their school. Then they also honored Mothers because they consider Mothers are the First Teacher or Guru. So there were several Mothers invited on the stage and they were garlanded by their child, and then they did a Pada Puja to them, a ritual when you wash their feet. (Does it sound familiar to what Jesus did on Holy Thursday?) And the finale was all the students who attended this got to come up to their “principal” for lack of another name, and the Head of the school gave them an edible treat, what they call “Prasad”. Indians love sweets so it was a Ladu, a ball of a very sweet pastry. I wish Western students respected their teachers (and mothers) like this.
• That was the good, now here’s something I want to share that really shocked me. When I was in New Delhi I was at the train station. It is a huge train station with at least 16 train tracks but where I was standing there were as many as 6 in a row, 2 or 3 then the platform and another 2 or 3 and a platform. There are people, and dogs all over the place. I watched as this little child walked along the track (which in itself was attention getting to me, why was this child walking on the tracks of a Train Station?) and he found a piece of bread, like a tortilla (actually called a Chapatti) and he picked it up off the train tracks and folded it up and started eating it! Who knows where it came from, whether it was dirty or not but at least it was something he could eat and he got it before the dogs found it. If you need to be thankful for something, be grateful that you have food to eat.
• And with that in mind I have an electric kettle in my room. It’s “my kitchen”. I can make tea, coffee, instant soup, porridge, whatever. So I keep the ingredients needed for all these things in my room on a table. I am constantly battling the ants for supremacy of my room and keep all my foodstuffs in plastic containers. Two days ago I saw that the ants invaded my jar of sugar. These ants are the size of my comma , like that. In fact a grain of sugar is bigger than the ant. There aren’t a whole lot of them, and I thought how can I separate the ants from the sugar? I thought about throwing out the sugar and after I gave it some thought, I said The Hell with it and I’m using the sugar anyway. I figure the boiling water kills them and disinfects them as the same time. I don’t even see them in my coffee or tea, they seem to disappear. Now the funny part is I told the receptionist in my office today and she told me that in India, they think eating ants is good for your health. I can’t tell you WHY it’s good for your health, but that’s what she told me. So I’m doing something good for my health by using up the sugar. Are you laughing?
• Lastly I have been thinking about “Work” lately since it’s been a full year now that I am retired. I’ve been thinking about the people I used to work with and wondering how they are doing? I heard there were a lot of changes after I left and I really am happy I wasn’t a part of them but I wish all of you the best. If anyone wants to write me, I’d love to hear individually how you are all doing.
That’s all I got to tell you this time. Thanks for listening.
Love you,
Marie

Saturday, July 13, 2013

#63 My internet is too slow!

Hello everyone, even though there isn't a lot of you. My fault, I don't post often enough to entice people to check this blog. The reason is my internet is just too darn slow. I can't even Skype with my brother without us having to disconnect and reconnet several times during the Skype and I can't even send emails with more than one photo without the connection giving me problems. So until I can figure out if it is my computer or the internet connection, I'm not putting myself through the frustration of waiting and waiting as I try to upload photos.


Where I am now? AIMS, the hospital.

How am I? OK, trying to get back to work but the monsoons really play havoc with people showing up at work, and getting laundry done, etc. The weather influences these things. So don't complain about it being hot there, at least you have a/c and everything still works for you.

I'll keep putting something here for you. Or email me and I'll answer. Much more personal anyway.
Love you
Marie

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

#62 Back in India




This is a photo of where I have been during this last week. Sorry I didn't tell everyone I was going away again. What happened is I try to post something with a downloaded photo and it takes so long that I give up. I was going to post two more photos and I have been trying to do it since Sunday (2 days ago) and I am giving up on it. I wish I had never started this blog it is more trouble than it's worth! If someone can suggest something easier, please do!

Where am I? I’m back in Ponnekara, Kerala, India. Last 10 days I went up to the Himalayas by way of New Delhi (and Agra where the Taj Mahal is) after I returned from Africa.
How am I? – Doing wonderful. I now feel very refreshed from this week of retreat. I was a little tired from the Safari. In Nairobi I met a travel buddy from CA for breakfast. We hadn’t seen each other since Thailand in 2008. She made me feel really good that she completed a non-camping safari and was amazed that I survived my camping safari in such good shape.

I took over a 1,000 photos on my safari but I have some favorites. I’ll give you one here at the end. My camera also died on me. I dropped it one too many times. It's working if I hold the bottom up so the battery doesn't fall out, and I take just a straight photo, no more zooming in. This photo of me in front of the Taj Mahal was courtesy of a woman I met there who offered to take it and send it to me. Otherwise I was going to have to pay for a photo and it wouldn't have been digital to publish like this for you all to see. Thank you, Liliana wherever you are.

It’s the monsoons here in Kerala and it has been constantly raining since I got back. I'm also in a new room so I have to get it sorted out, put up the mosquito net, arrange my things, unpack. When I went to unpack all my clothes smell of mildew and the pair of shoes I left behind had mold on them. I don't think I'll be staying during monsoon season again.

So the question everyone always asks when people return from a Safari is Did they get to see the Big Five - Lions, Elephants, Rhinosaurus, Leopards and Water Buffalo? They were the hardest to hunt on safaris. We got to see them all. In fact, here's a photo of how close we got to Lions! Yep, this female felt like taking a nap on our tire and I'm really next to her.

Except that you can't see the photos. I'm not sure if it's my computer or the internet connection but I can't get the photos downloaded. Sorry about that. I'll see if I can get the IT Dept at the hospital to help me.

Love you all,
Marie