Saturday, January 4, 2014

#80 Recapping what has happened last year



Where am?  In my room at the Guest House at the university/hospital in Ponnekarra.  I just found out that I have been pronouncing this wrong, not Po-neh-kar-ra but Po-neck-kor-ra with the emphasis on NECK. 

How am I?  Very good. But you already know that.

Sorry I haven’t updated this blog is a very long time. I did get to send out my Christmas letter to most of you so that gave you a lot of info on me.  But for those of you who didn’t get it, I’ll attach it.

You have to understand that everything is different here – even the internet.  When I open Google and Yahoo they are Google India and Yahoo India.  So it’s difficult for me to get what’s happening in the US. That’s why I appreciate it so much when you write to me. 

This is going to be a long Posting so read what you want and disregard what you find boring.
I found this on Yahoo India one dayWhen Chris Hemsworth aka Thor aka Every-Girl’s-Dream-Come-True was in Asia lately for the filming of Michael Mann’s movie, fans traversed from Hong Kong to Singapore to Malaysia chasing after the chiselled Adonis for a glimpse of him. Asia is fast becoming filming hotspots for blockbuster movies, so it’s no surprise that Asia is deemed to be the next ‘Hollywood’. Get your popcorns ready for our favourite movie spots in Asia!” 

 I sure have gone to the movies seeing everything I can that comes here in English.  I did see Thor 2, and two days ago I saw The Life and Times of Walter Mitty and yesterday I saw The Wolf of Wall Street. These last two movies were excellent. I have missed quite a few movies and started making a list on my computer of what I want to see on DVD when I get back. I’ll be hibernating for a while but it will be summertime so I will want to stay home and be in A/C. Netflix has already sent me a very attractive offer to join again.

Life is going well for me with the countdown to my leaving in February. I just bought my tickets this week and I am going to Densapar, Bali on February 20th, and continue on to Perth, Australia on February 27th. That gives me one week to relax, get massages every day, let myself be pampered.

So I have missed telling you about the way I spent my holidays and also a highlight of my stay here in India. I already mentioned to you that I helped to host 10 people from Sri Lanka who came here as consultants for a Micro-Finance plan for village women. It turned out to be a blast. I am not a financial person at all, I was just making sure they got what they needed (rooms, meals, transportation) but it was truly amazing, traveling with the 9 women in the back of a private bus with Indian (think Bollywood) music blasting and them dancing and singing. Of course they made me get up and join them. It was a hoot. 

And shopping!  I have heard of “shop to your drop” but with these women it was shop until you run out of money and since they were financial people, the one man kept refurbishing their resources. The last day they were here we went shopping, then to see that dance theatre Kathakali, then after the show we went shopping again. The stores were closing, it was already after 9:00 p.m. but the shopkeeper was making so much money he stayed open, and even opened another shop he had with other merchandise to accommodate the women. They bought so much stuff they were buying suitcases to put it in to take back to Sri Lanka. It really made my heart sing that they were not rich women but they were self made wealthy women with their Micro-Finance scheme. And they weren’t buying stuff for themselves, they were buying gifts for everyone they knew and worked with. They were unbelievably generous women. I will never forget them. Yes, they even gave me, my co-workers and the bus driver gifts! And we didn’t get back to the Guest House until Midnight!

Christmas?  Christmas slide past me very quietly and quickly.  I stayed that night at my friend’s brand new home, very beautiful with all the “Western” bells and whistles. I had a hot shower. And we listened to Christmas music from the internet.  I was able to YouTube hours of play of classic carols.  And then kids came to our door. My friend speaks the local language so I called her and she found some candy she had in the house and gave it to them. They really didn’t sing, they chanted with one person calling out “HAPPY” and the others replying “CHRISTMAS”.  Also, they had someone dressed up in a Santa Claus outfit with a hideous mask.  But the exuberance they had was touching. Remember only around 15% of the population here is Christian. There are Muslims and Hindis in all the surrounding houses.

Over the holidays there was a huge Christmas tree at the mall I go to and there were English movies, children's animated movies, one about Turkeys a couple of weeks ago and then Frozen, which turned out to be based on a Hans Christian Anderson Fairy Tale. Yes, I went to see it.

It's constant summer here, no change. It has been 87 to 90 degrees Fahrenheit the whole time.  Lately it’s been getting cool enough during the night that I can turn off the fan but it’s on again as soon as the sun comes up.

And I never told you about Thanksgiving. I had that over at my girlfriend’s home. There are two roommates there, an Indian named Reshma, and a California girl named Eileen.  Eileen is my age, a retired Microbiologist who volunteers at the university teaching classes and also at the hospital where she is in charge of Infection Control. Reshma is a younger woman who is in charge of the International Marketing office at the hospital. Think Medical Tourism.  I wouldn’t want her job for anything. Picture someone coming to your Emergency Room who doesn’t speak your language, and is obviously dying, and then dies!!  But by time they die they have run up a bill of thousands of dollars that you have to find who pays for it?  And WHERE to send the body? And the person was alone. Like I said, I would not want her job.

But back to Thanksgiving, Eileen fixed a Thanksgiving meal that rivaled anything I have ever had. They had the complete kitchen with all conveniences so she made a perfect vegetarian meal: two kinds of stuffing, gravy, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes (except they weren’t the kind we’re used to, they cooked up yellow not orange), mushrooms, corn on the cob… I can’t remember everything.  She even made a pumpkin pie and whipped up cream for the top. The only thing missing was the Macy Parade.

New Years Day I was talked into going to the Mother Center for the organization that runs the hospital and university. I really didn’t want to go because I always have a terrible trip physically going and coming.  I have tried buses, cars, trains and always I have been pushed, leaned on, squashed and had motion sickness. No, I don’t like taking the three and a half hour trip there. But this time I did have a very pleasant train trip both going and coming, down on New Year’s Eve and back on New Year Day. They had a cultural presentation with singing and dancing. I love dancing, and there were two very young girls who danced Classic Indian dance that were fantastic. New Year Day is not a holiday here in India so coming home I saw that the school children were in their uniforms going to school. I have not been volunteering for a week now. I did some proofreading of a document but that’s it.  I gave myself a vacation.

And getting my airline tickets was a saga!  I couldn’t do it online like normal. I tried several websites and my American credit card doesn’t get approved. I finally had to go to a travel agency with all the information of exactly what I wanted and they were able to run my credit card and get me my tickets. And I immediately got an email from the Fraud Protection Dept of Chase Bank asking me to call them. Oh the joys of living here.

So I will be enjoying the last 45 days of my living here in India. I will contact all my co-workers on Monday and see if they have any projects I can help with before I leave. I have to start packing and see what I would like to send back to the US so I don’t have to carry it back with me. I am only allowed 20 Kilos on the planes.

A very happy New Year to you all.  Let 2014 be a Blessed Year for all of us.
Love,
Marie

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